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Essence of an individual

The essence of an individual’s captivating personality lies in their character, which intricately shapes their behavior and attitudes. However, what we perceive as personality often does not fully reflect their core, their innermost self. An individual's individuality can be visualized as a series of concentric circles, each representing layers of their being. The outermost circle, labeled as E, hints at surface traits. The middle circles, D and C, delve deeper into their persona, while the innermost circles, B and A, encapsulate the essence of their true self. The deepest circle, A, safeguards this core and reveals itself only in the presence of resonance, trust, and profound commitment. Understanding these layers fosters a deep appreciation of the authentic person beneath the surface.

When meeting new people, our conversations typically begin with basic questions about their family background, occupation, and hobbies. These interactions correspond to the E level, representing surface-level traits. As relationships progress, the dialogue evolves to explore habits, personal stories, likes, and dislikes. This marks the unfolding of the D and C levels, which reveal the middle layers of their personality. Based on these glimpses, the relationship may either deepen or remain at these intermediate levels. If liking and intimacy grow, access to the B level may be granted, eventually unraveling the enigmatic A.

Circle A can be likened to the unconscious mind, holding vast mysteries and untapped potential. The journey to this profound territory strengthens intimacy and reveals majestic traits and a sense of divinity within the individual. This authentic revelation starkly contrasts with the surface-level perceptions, opinions, and judgments formed at the E, D, and C levels.

Most of our relationships remain confined to the E, D, and C levels. Many people in our lives occupy these peripheral layers, engaging with us on a transactional basis or being dismissed entirely. Few possess the potential to reach the B level, and access to Circle A is reserved for exceptional individuals.

Embarking on the journey to Circle A requires intimacy nurtured through love, trust, and unwavering commitment. It’s a transparent and shared relationship, built on mutual trust and profound partnership, where two souls connect deeply. Accessing Circle A is not easy; it unfolds naturally through a combination of sincerity, intimacy, and commitment in the bond. Sharing one’s core is the ultimate outcome of intense honesty and deep connection.


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