True love is an occurrence devoid of logic. It exists beyond the bounds of rationality, much like the divine. As the Bhagavad Gita teaches, "I am the Self, O Gudakesha, seated in the hearts of all creatures." Love is an embodiment of that divine presence—it arises from within and connects the soul to the infinite. It defies reason when a person in love is willing to sacrifice their life for another. Rational minds may see this as irrational or even negative, but love, to me, is the ultimate sublime feeling. It takes precedence over all other emotions, creating a deep connection to the essence of another being.
Love embodies a prosperity mentality—one of pure giving. Unlike a poverty mentality, which focuses on taking, love flows freely, like a river nourishing everything in its path. It is egoless and selfless, teaching us the art of giving, forgiving, sacrificing, and letting go. While human love cannot always be free of expectations, true love does not demand. It is not a transactional give-and-take but a boundless generosity of spirit. Even a mother, whose love is the pinnacle of selflessness, may long for a simple hug or kiss from her child—not out of need, but as an expression of mutual warmth.
In love, there is no competition, no race. Love is pure and full of care, adoration, admiration, and respect. It is a tender packaging of emotions, crafted by the heart, and gifted unconditionally. Love is devotion and dedication, the silent prayer of one soul to another.
Yet, the world often misunderstands such devotion. Others may question why you shower love on someone without external compulsion or wonder if the beloved is “deserving” of such affection. But love is not driven by reason—it arises from an internal force, bypassing the mind and flowing directly from the heart. As Sri Aurobindo explains, "The divine love, which is pure and constant, is that which remains steadfast, no matter the circumstances."
True love yearns to remain anchored in the essence of the beloved. It cannot bear separation. It binds itself in duty to the one it loves, revolving around them as its epicenter. Love transforms the beloved into your universe, making everything seem beautiful and mystical. In such love, life gains a deeper meaning. Even amidst the routines and aspirations of life, one always returns to this inner sanctuary of love in moments of solitude.
Love is not a bargain or a calculated arrangement. It is a merger—a dissolution of self into the phenomenon of love. Rational questions like “What am I getting out of this?” or “Where am I in this?” fade into insignificance when one is immersed in love’s all-encompassing embrace.
When love is reciprocated with equal intensity, it blossoms into something extraordinary. Such mutual love is rare and precious—a true blessing. However, in today’s world, love often contends with rationality and practicality. Many approach relationships with the mindset of “What’s in it for me?” While logical, this mindset undermines the essence of love, reducing it to mere convenience or arrangement.
Some suppress their feelings, fearing vulnerability, or abandon love altogether in favor of reason. Perhaps they are right; perhaps not. Ultimately, it is an individual choice. However, the tragedy often lies in unrequited love—when the one you love does not reciprocate your feelings.
The greater the intensity of love, the more it exposes you to hurt and suffering. In true love, rationality often surrenders to emotion. Love can be painful, bringing hurt, loneliness, and suffering. It is an experience that others may relate to but can never fully comprehend. Yet, paradoxically, this pain is a source of joy. It is a suffering one cherishes. As Rumi said, “The wound is the place where the light enters you.” Though illogical, love is the most profound and beautiful feeling one can experience. Those who feel such intensity and selflessness in their love are truly blessed.
Love is devotion; it is worship. Those who are loved with such devotion are fortunate beyond measure, for they have received life’s greatest gift. Love, to me, is divine and sacred. It is a blessing that elevates the soul. When blessed with this feeling, the beloved’s happiness becomes more important than your own. You belong to them completely, anchored in their essence.
Separation may feel unbearable, but true love respects the freedom of the other. Their joy becomes your joy, and their well-being surpasses your own desires. Love is not merely an emotion—it is a noble force that transcends logic and rationality. As the Tao Te Ching says, "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." Love is the force that unites all beings, connecting us to the divine essence that flows through everything.
Why does love happen? Why does it choose a particular person, at a particular time, without reason or logic? Why can’t it be rationally orchestrated? These questions remain unanswered, for love is a divine phenomenon. It mirrors the divine itself—a creative, sacred force that teaches us selflessness, devotion, and the beauty of connection. In loving another, we find a deeper understanding of ourselves and our purpose. Perhaps love defies logic because it was never meant to be understood, only felt. It is the greatest gift given to mankind, a force that transforms the ordinary into the extraordinary and the finite into the infinite. Those who embrace it in its purest form live their lives in the truest sense.
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